How do you identify?
I have been called androgynous, you know, kind of in the middle, in-between. I'm happy with that. I identify with queer. People say you're queer, and I'm cool with that.
How does your identity impact your daily life?
When I was working in San Jose, my identity impacted my life on a daily basis. One of the reasons I wanted to work in San Francisco, versus San Jose, was that I was encountering things like going to the women's restroom and being accosted, being told: It's not the men's restroom. I experienced that a lot in San Jose, but at Twist, and in San Francisco, I don't experience that at all. I feel like I can bring my entire self to Twist.
Before working at Twist, I really didn't think such a thing existed, or could exist, so it's quite refreshing. As many changes as I've seen in the last five years, I think Silicon Valley still has a ways to go to create a comfortable place where someone like myself feels they can thrive. But I am quite impressed with what the Twist executive team have put together, as far as employees feeling welcome.
How was your experience outside of Twist different?
I'm very much into fitness, and when I was in the Air Force, I did a lot of body building. It didn’t really fit the mold and comply with the Air Force standard. It was difficult because there were times when I was expected to be a meek airman, and I didn't want to do that. I never talked about who I was dating or the crowds I hung around. It was difficult to do that language dance. Not saying he or she – watching the pronouns. I call it the pronoun game.
Being a woman of color hasn’t been easy, either. I've been in this industry for 15 years. I think I know what I'm talking about, but I still have to back that up and prove it over and over again. Sometimes, just getting a voice at the table has been difficult. If you want to survive, you have to have a thick skin and pick your battles.
What do you do in your spare time?
I'm applying to graduate school, computer science, so I'm rearranging my priorities to accomplish that. That's what I do in my off time. I'm a geek, so yeah, I build my own computers. You will not see me buying a computer from the store!